When Will You Marreeeyyyyy
So, the other day I got the funniest DM ever asking me for relationship advice.
Now, the relationship question wasn't funny at all but the fact that someone was asking me for advice on their relationship had me in stitches. In case you guys don't know I'm single. Not like haha in between boyfriends single but like single single. The main issue with this is I quite like being single. I have no current desire for a relationship and to be honest it's a bit worrying.
I feel that at 19 I should join my friends on the hunt for boyfriends/girlfriends to go to winter wonderland or on dinner dates with, after all it is cuffing season. I should be thinking 'goals' as I scroll through IG but I'm don't, I just think it's cute that someone else is happy but I don't crave that for myself. Don't get me wrong it's a very normal thing to want at my age so I'm not looking down on people that do want a relationship now. Oh, and just to be clear I don't want to be single for the rest of my life, eventually I want a husband and kids. But right now it is at the very bottom of my priority list, right under finding a new laugh (I currently possess a very ugly cackle). But then I see my age mates going on shows like 'First Dates' talking about how they've been single all their lives and want to settle down and I actually can't relate.
I'm not one those girls who are surrounded by man-hating friends who believe men are trash (even though I do say it for the culture #MenAreTrash) in fact a lot of my friends are in relationships. Thing is I like seeing them happy and I see that it is hard work but anything that's worthwhile usually is. Not to get big headed but I'm an ok looking human with a not terrible personality so I do get approached and asked on dates etc. But I honestly just think meh, do I really want to regularly see your face? Nah.
I was talking to a male friend of mine (defo a friend btw he's gay) and he said that a lot of girls are like me cos they feel independent etc and therefore don't crave a man to make them feel complete. But where does independence stop and isolation start? To be honest I don't think that's fair to the girls who are still independent but just want to share their experiences with someone after all no man is an island. I see the benefits of a relationship love is fab I see how happy my friends' boyfriends/girlfriends make them and I do think aww cute but I dunno, I don't want that. But then I also do want that.
So the question is, should I start looking for my prince charming or wait for him to find me?
Actually forget that question. just don't send me relationship questions cos I have basically no idea what I'm talking about as you can see above.
Lots of love with cherries on top,
Jade and her imaginary (but amazing) boyfriend xxxxx
Now, the relationship question wasn't funny at all but the fact that someone was asking me for advice on their relationship had me in stitches. In case you guys don't know I'm single. Not like haha in between boyfriends single but like single single. The main issue with this is I quite like being single. I have no current desire for a relationship and to be honest it's a bit worrying.
I feel that at 19 I should join my friends on the hunt for boyfriends/girlfriends to go to winter wonderland or on dinner dates with, after all it is cuffing season. I should be thinking 'goals' as I scroll through IG but I'm don't, I just think it's cute that someone else is happy but I don't crave that for myself. Don't get me wrong it's a very normal thing to want at my age so I'm not looking down on people that do want a relationship now. Oh, and just to be clear I don't want to be single for the rest of my life, eventually I want a husband and kids. But right now it is at the very bottom of my priority list, right under finding a new laugh (I currently possess a very ugly cackle). But then I see my age mates going on shows like 'First Dates' talking about how they've been single all their lives and want to settle down and I actually can't relate.
I'm not one those girls who are surrounded by man-hating friends who believe men are trash (even though I do say it for the culture #MenAreTrash) in fact a lot of my friends are in relationships. Thing is I like seeing them happy and I see that it is hard work but anything that's worthwhile usually is. Not to get big headed but I'm an ok looking human with a not terrible personality so I do get approached and asked on dates etc. But I honestly just think meh, do I really want to regularly see your face? Nah.
I was talking to a male friend of mine (defo a friend btw he's gay) and he said that a lot of girls are like me cos they feel independent etc and therefore don't crave a man to make them feel complete. But where does independence stop and isolation start? To be honest I don't think that's fair to the girls who are still independent but just want to share their experiences with someone after all no man is an island. I see the benefits of a relationship love is fab I see how happy my friends' boyfriends/girlfriends make them and I do think aww cute but I dunno, I don't want that. But then I also do want that.
So the question is, should I start looking for my prince charming or wait for him to find me?
Actually forget that question. just don't send me relationship questions cos I have basically no idea what I'm talking about as you can see above.
Lots of love with cherries on top,
Jade and her imaginary (but amazing) boyfriend xxxxx
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